Q: I met this girl and I really love her, but there’s a problem. She told me that she slept with several guys and the last guy she met slept with her just in few days; and they spent only two weeks together before I met her. This is very hard for me amber, how can I continue with this in my heart?

A: Everyone has their own sexual morals and ways of conducting themselves sexually.  It sounds like you and your girlfriend don’t see eye to eye on when it’s a good idea to sleep with someone.  If you really love her and want to be with her, this difference is something you’ll have to accept.  It may also help to talk with her about the fact that you take sex more seriously than she does, and that you want to make sure the two of you are on the same page about where your relationship is going. You also want to let her know that you expect that the two of you will be sleeping with each other exclusively.

Very often couples have different moral, religious, and political views, but continue the relationship because, on the whole, the relationship is more important than their differences.  You have to decide. Is this difference bigger than your relationship and your feelings for her?  If it’s not, it’s something you have to talk about.