Comments on: Virginity http://www.ambermadison.tv/archives/26 The Talk with Me, Amber Madison Tue, 31 Mar 2009 13:56:20 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3 By: virginnomore http://www.ambermadison.tv/archives/26#comment-13 virginnomore Thu, 02 Aug 2007 20:36:57 +0000 http://www.ambermadison.tv/archives/26#comment-13 I lost my virginity when I was 17. I had been dating a guy for about 6 months and while he pressured me slightly throughout the relationship to have sex, he was always very respectful of me. When the time came, I actually felt really ready to have sex. We didn’t plan a night to do it, or a special time…one night it just felt right and it happened. If anything, I was happy to have my first time be with someone I genuinely cared about in a setting that was comfortable and not at all awkward. To be perfectly honest, sex wasn’t as big of a deal as I thought. I didn’t feel any older or wiser after, it was simply something that acted as another outlet to show our love to each other. As I have grown up (and moved through different relationships), I can say that yes, sex is a form of intimacy, but there are plenty of ways to be intimate and show you love someone in other ways too. Overall, I am grateful that losing my virginity was a positive experience for me, not one that I look back on with any regret or shame. I lost my virginity when I was 17. I had been dating a guy for about 6 months and while he pressured me slightly throughout the relationship to have sex, he was always very respectful of me. When the time came, I actually felt really ready to have sex.

We didn’t plan a night to do it, or a special time…one night it just felt right and it happened. If anything, I was happy to have my first time be with someone I genuinely cared about in a setting that was comfortable and not at all awkward.
To be perfectly honest, sex wasn’t as big of a deal as I thought. I didn’t feel any older or wiser after, it was simply something that acted as another outlet to show our love to each other. As I have grown up (and moved through different relationships), I can say that yes, sex is a form of intimacy, but there are plenty of ways to be intimate and show you love someone in other ways too. Overall, I am grateful that losing my virginity was a positive experience for me, not one that I look back on with any regret or shame.

]]> By: kind of confused http://www.ambermadison.tv/archives/26#comment-8 kind of confused Tue, 31 Jul 2007 21:06:56 +0000 http://www.ambermadison.tv/archives/26#comment-8 wait, so there was NO blood for you when you lost your virginity? did you do things with people beforehand? i havnt lost my virginity yet, but its something that always comes up one way or another. and "popping your cherry" is usually included wait, so there was NO blood for you when you lost your virginity? did you do things with people beforehand?

i havnt lost my virginity yet, but its something that always comes up one way or another. and “popping your cherry” is usually included

]]> By: jsdflkj http://www.ambermadison.tv/archives/26#comment-7 jsdflkj Tue, 31 Jul 2007 21:04:16 +0000 http://www.ambermadison.tv/archives/26#comment-7 <p>I think losing your virginity is not all it's cracked up to be. I mean look at all these movies like American Pie where that's clearly all they care about. I guess it's more of a matter of getting it DONE.. haha. </p> <p>When I lost my virginity, we were in a car. My friends had already lost theirs, and I just kind of wanted to get it over with... anyway, afterward the guy was a total asshole and pretended that it didn't happen. Yet when he was asking me to do it, he was basically pretending to love me and be all over me. Whatever. Since him I've been able to smarten up.</p> I think losing your virginity is not all it’s cracked up to be. I mean look at all these movies like American Pie where that’s clearly all they care about. I guess it’s more of a matter of getting it DONE.. haha.

When I lost my virginity, we were in a car. My friends had already lost theirs, and I just kind of wanted to get it over with… anyway, afterward the guy was a total asshole and pretended that it didn’t happen. Yet when he was asking me to do it, he was basically pretending to love me and be all over me. Whatever. Since him I’ve been able to smarten up.

]]> By: MyRedStapler http://www.ambermadison.tv/archives/26#comment-6 MyRedStapler Tue, 31 Jul 2007 20:59:03 +0000 http://www.ambermadison.tv/archives/26#comment-6 As my boyfriend and I climbed into bed in anticipation of me losing my virginity, I became pretty excited. I loved this guy, so I knew it was time... when things got underway, I expected like this tidal wave of blood to come out of me, or something like that! Nothing had come out! It was almost upsetting!!! As my boyfriend and I climbed into bed in anticipation of me losing my virginity, I became pretty excited. I loved this guy, so I knew it was time… when things got underway, I expected like this tidal wave of blood to come out of me, or something like that! Nothing had come out! It was almost upsetting!!!

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